"When you pick a life-partner, go for the one with the best communication skills; because when you’re both growing old together, it’ll be the only skill you’ll ever need..."
Let’s face it.
When we choose our "partners", we usually are attracted to certain things about them; their smiles, their voices, their physical attributes, their facial features, their "character" or sometimes the lack of it...
How often do we grow fond of that certain someone due to the fact that they know how to react to our needs, even smallest gestures or our subconscious body language?
Did we get a chance to know that person good enough to build up the comfort level with them to be able to communicate our thoughts well enough?
Have we put ourselves in a situation where we are able to anticipate the deepest feelings & emotions of that particular person?
Are we sensitive enough to notice the expressions on their faces at the slightest clue or faintest sign of discomfort or pain?
Believe me.
It doesn’t take supernatural human abilities to be able to do the above.
All it takes is what we often call "chemistry", the certain "spark", "telepathy" or just simply; the care & concern for the person whom you genuinely love...
Have you found that person who is so comfortable to be with, so comforting to hear speak, so understanding of your situation even when the least was said, who would anticipate all your emotions & knows how to care for your feelings?
It’s been said often enough that in our lives, people walk in & out...
Only those who make a difference would carve their names in our hearts.
My heart’s carved.
I have been blessed.
And now, I wait.
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