"What you are today is the direct result of the choices you made yesterday..."
Some people are just like that.
They whine, sulk, bitch about stuff which are happening to them, on them or around them.
What they fail to realize is: That whatever circumstances you are in, you chose to be in them yourself.
If you don't like the way things are, walk away.
Simple.
But how many of us can do that?
Some of the people I know like to make the best of a coffee break making the coffee more bitter.
Their jobs, their families, their health condition, their neighbours, their children, etc... (the list goes on, OMG you won't believe the things people complain about...)
To these folks, I tell them: Change.
Firstly, the circumstances of the things you can.
Otherwise, change your attitude towards the things you can't...
Imagine, one fella coming to you & complain that he has got rashes all the time.
He hates how his skin is, and lately, he found out that he has lice.
He is also not gonna be surprised if the dermatologist would to tell him he has got living parasites sucking the bloody daylight out of him.
We would think that the natural question is: "What are your sentiments on personal hygiene?"
And he may just answer: "Well, I do shower once a week & my shower cream is the expensive type-lah!"
Get my point?
We always see things that happen to us as "something that befalls upon us".
Let me tell you now.
That if you're tired of the condition you live in, change it.
If you are disappointed with the way things happen around you, change your surroundings where you can be in a position to make things happen.
If you feel that the parasites take too much of your blood, scrub harder.
I seriously want to know who came up with the abbreviations "F.M.L.".
I would want to know if he or she really meant it.
After all, the secret to true happiness lies within out decisions.
Remember:
D - Don't
E - Ever
C - Complain,
I - It
D - Disgusts
E - Everybody
Have a great September.
